This article is aimed at men who are in the early stages of getting over ex girlfriends or current girlfriends. I used to do this, and it remains one of the more shameful episodes from my own past. You are your own salvation here. It just takes a bit of time, reflection, soul-searching, and vulnerability on your part.
A friend told me about my wife’s sexual past – and now I can’t trust her
My Girlfriend Slept With Too Many Guys In The Past! What Should I Do? | Regain
She is the perfect partner, we communicate well, we love each other, and everything is in theory going as well as it could be. However, I have a problem. What really exacerbates this is the fact that I never had any experience before her. I used to be awkward, shy, and unattractive, and never had any sort of romantic experience whatsoever before her. She has been my first and only kiss, first only relationship, I lost my virginity to her, everything.
My Girlfriend Slept With Too Many Guys In The Past! What Should I Do?
It isn't unusual to want to know more about your girlfriend's past. Many people don't know the full story when it comes to their lover's past. Some people are more open about talking about their past relationships than others. Some prefer to leave the past in the past, and some like to embrace their past experiences. Sometimes learning about what your girlfriend was like in the past will make you uncomfortable, so it could wind up being detrimental to dig too deep.
It happens to all of us at some point. We meet someone new, and then sooner or later they tell us about their sexual history because we asked or they offered. Sometimes this can blow over in a couple of hours or days. But in other cases it can spiral out of control into an OCD-like pattern of negative thoughts and emotions.